{"id":16503,"date":"2020-05-25T07:08:02","date_gmt":"2020-05-25T11:08:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shorebeat.com\/brick\/?p=16503"},"modified":"2020-05-25T07:08:02","modified_gmt":"2020-05-25T11:08:02","slug":"dear-justins-teachers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/2020\/05\/dear-justins-teachers\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Justin&#8217;s Teachers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-16504\" src=\"https:\/\/www.shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-400x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-240x180.jpg 240w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-560x420.jpg 560w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-80x60.jpg 80w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-180x135.jpg 180w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-238x178.jpg 238w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-640x480.jpg 640w, https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Autumn-08-089-681x511.jpg 681w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dear Justin\u2019s teachers,<\/p>\n<p>It would be the understatement of the year to say we miss you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s been ten weeks now of home instruction, and while I feel extremely grateful to say it\u2019s gone well, I know having his mom teach him is no replacement for all of your expertise. The fact that he lets me lead him around the house to do various tasks is not nearly as much a testament to my teaching prowess as it is to the landscape of learning you\u2019ve laid down for him since he was seven, inculcating a love of learning and a willingness to be taught that I could never have inspired here.<\/p>\n<p>Have I mentioned we miss you?<\/p>\n<p>As usual, as soon as school closed you had a plan, and instruction started the first day Justin no longer had the option to physically attend school. You quickly implemented Zoom meetings which always elicit at least a few smiles from my boy when he sees you (and smiles from me when it works), and with your excellent instructions I\u2019ve seen my boy make progress. To my delight I can\u2019t say he\u2019s regressed in any area so far.<\/p>\n<p>May that remain the truth.<\/p>\n<p>The support from all of you has been incredible. The fact that my son can still get excellent ABA services, speech therapy, occupational therapy and PE while a global pandemic is going on is phenomenal. And while I am fully aware that all of you do a much better job than me, I still feel like he\u2019s moving forward and acquiring skills.<\/p>\n<p>I even dare say he\u2019s enjoying it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned a lot about my son these last two-and-a-half months. I\u2019ve completely shed my fears that he\u2019d be miserable at home if there\u2019s a significant gap between graduation and a day program years from now. I\u2019ve learned that my son likes long walks, and won\u2019t try to get into the car to go somewhere a lot more fun than his house. I\u2019ve realized that my boy, who is at the cusp of adulthood, a still-child who has had significant behavioral struggles in the past, is yet again that inherently happy soul I knew in his youth.<\/p>\n<p>And so much of that peace, that contentment, those rare smiles that undo me, is because of all of you and your hard work with him this decade past.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know when he\u2019ll return to you. But I do know this.<\/p>\n<p>With all of your help, hopefully I will be sending you back an almost- man who\u2019s made progress with self-help skills.<\/p>\n<p>And with luck, I will be returning a student who\u2019s improved academically, with his love of learning intact.<\/p>\n<p>I am confident I will be giving back a child who is infinitely happier seeing his teachers in person than seeing them on a screen.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for all you\u2019ve done for him and all your students this year, and every year past. We can\u2019t wait until this is over, but in the meantime, thankfully, we\u2019re okay.<\/p>\n<p>We hope to see you soon!<\/p>\n<p><em>For more on my family visit my blog at autismmommytherapist.wordpress.com<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Follow me on Facebook at Autism Mommy-Therapist<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fb-share-button fcbkbttn_large_button \" data-href=\"https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/2020\/05\/dear-justins-teachers\/\" data-type=\"button_count\" data-size=\"large\"><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Justin\u2019s teachers, It would be the understatement of the year to say we miss you. It\u2019s been ten weeks now of home instruction, and while I feel extremely grateful to say it\u2019s gone well, I know having his mom teach him is no replacement for all of your expertise. 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