{"id":4209,"date":"2015-04-06T10:21:39","date_gmt":"2015-04-06T14:21:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shorebeat.com\/brick\/?p=4209"},"modified":"2015-04-06T13:53:45","modified_gmt":"2015-04-06T17:53:45","slug":"ten-ways-to-reach-out-to-the-autism-community","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shorebeat.com\/brick\/2015\/04\/ten-ways-to-reach-out-to-the-autism-community\/","title":{"rendered":"Ten Ways to Reach Out to the Autism Community"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Eleven years ago, my eldest son Justin was diagnosed with moderate to severe autism. At the time I didn\u2019t know any other families with autistic children other than the ones I\u2019d had in my homeroom as a teacher, and those children were much older than my son. I didn\u2019t know who to turn to for help in supplementing the scant eight hours of services Justin was receiving each month from Virginia\u2019s Early Intervention. I had so many questions regarding the gluten-free diet, yet didn\u2019t know whom to ask for advice. I knew I needed a place to vent, but wasn\u2019t sure I\u2019d find a support group to fit into, as several had turned me away because my son was not high-functioning. Even months after Justin\u2019s developmental pediatrician told us the news, I was still scared at what the future held, overwhelmed, and alone.<\/p>\n

It finally hit me one day that I used to be someone who helped others, but now for my son\u2019s sake I needed to ask for help. Fortunately I turned to the autism community, and found a wealth of support, advice and resources.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the people I met even provided me with a much needed laugh (and wine.)<\/p>\n

The autism community both online and in your \u201cown backyard\u201d can be instrumental in helping you surmount challenges, in giving you ideas, and in being a place where you can feel surrounded by people who \u201cget it.\u201d Here are some of my favorite ways to integrate into the community, because we all need a place where we feel we belong:<\/p>\n

1) If you\u2019re fortunate enough to live in a state which provides ample Early Intervention therapy hours for your child, reach out to your child\u2019s therapists with any questions you have. I have two children on the spectrum, and their therapists have given me suggestions on developmental pediatricians, support groups, and much more. I often asked them to question their other clients for me regarding resources, and in doing so they provided me with a wealth of information. I found that even if they couldn\u2019t answer my question, they knew who to ask.<\/p>\n

2) If you\u2019re looking for Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) providers for your child, try your local colleges or universities. Talk to the secretaries in the education department and ask if you can put up a flier, or have the professors mention the opportunity to their students. We acquired several of our therapists that way, and it was a win-win for all of us.<\/p>\n

3) If you\u2019re just beginning your journey with autism ask your Early Intervention coordinator about programs, services, and camps. We found out about several local autism organizations that way, as well as about a number of camps that turned out to be wonderful for our son.<\/p>\n

4) If your child is already in school join your local SEPTA, or Special Education PTA. The parents in mine have been extremely helpful, plus they\u2019ve provided an important sounding board for me over the years (and I\u2019ve made friends!)<\/p>\n

5) Check out the Autism Speaks website and Facebook page. Just their tool kits alone have helped me overcome many challenges with my kids both at home and in the community.<\/p>\n

6) Reach out to different autism organizations and attend as many workshops as you can. Many are free, and along with the information provided you might make some great contacts.<\/p>\n

7) Join a local support group. Reach out to local autism organizations and even to your child\u2019s doctors to find one. They can be a great place (if the fit is right) to vent, celebrate your child\u2019s accomplishments, and learn.<\/p>\n

8) If you are looking for a social skills group for your child, try nearby psychologists and psychiatrists as well as local hospitals for suggestions.<\/p>\n

9) If your child is still young ask your Early Intervention providers if they can recommend other moms with autistic children to whom they\u2019ve delivered services in the past. I\u2019m still friends with many of my kids\u2019 providers (we spent so much time together after all,) and I\u2019ve helped out a few parents over the years. I also met a few wonderful moms who were farther along than I was who turned out to be a great help.<\/p>\n

10) You will undoubtedly have a number of people try to \u201cset you up\u201d with other autism parents, and I used to roll my eyes at times at peoples\u2019 matchmaking. However, one of my dearest \u201cautism mommy friends\u201d is from my son\u2019s hairdresser who wouldn\u2019t let me leave her establishment until I\u2019d spoken on the phone to her client. You just never know!<\/p>\n

For more on my family visit my blog at autismmommytherapist.wordpress.com\/
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